Come posso impostare un vincolo di tabella differibile inizialmente differito nel modello django?

Lo farei tramite una singola migrazione. Per prima cosa ottieni in modo programmatico il nome univoco del vincolo, quindi rilascialo e aggiungi nuovamente (poiché la modifica sembra funzionare solo per i vincoli FK, non per i vincoli univoci). Aggiungi la migrazione inversa che annulla anche questo.

from django.db import migrations, connection



def _make_deferrable(apps, schema_editor):
    """
    Change the unique constraint to be deferrable
    """
    # Get the db name of the constraint
    MyModel = apps.get_model('myapp', 'MyModel')
    CONSTRAINT_NAME = schema_editor._constraint_names(MYModel,
                                                                   ['col1', 'col2'],
                                                                   unique=True)[0]
    TABLE_NAME = MyModel._meta.db_table


    # Drop then re-add with deferrable as ALTER doesnt seem to work for unique constraints in psql
    with schema_editor.connection.create_cursor() as curs:
        curs.execute(
            f'ALTER TABLE {TABLE_NAME} DROP CONSTRAINT "{CONSTRAINT_NAME}";'
        )
        curs.execute(
            f'ALTER TABLE {TABLE_NAME} ADD CONSTRAINT'
            f' {CONSTRAINT_NAME}'
            f' UNIQUE (col1, col2) DEFERRABLE INITIALLY DEFERRED;'
        )


def _unmake_deferrable(apps, schema_editor):
    """
    Reverse the unique constraint to be not deferrable
    """
    # Get the db name of unique constraint
    MyModel = apps.get_model('myapp', 'MyModel')
    CONSTRAINT_NAME = schema_editor._constraint_names(MyModel,
                                                                   ['col1', 'col2'],
                                                                   unique=True)[0]
    TABLE_NAME = MyModel._meta.db_table

    with schema_editor.connection.create_cursor() as curs:
        curs.execute(
            f'ALTER TABLE {TABLE_NAME} DROP CONSTRAINT "{CONSTRAINT_NAME}";'
        ) 
        curs.execute(
            f'ALTER TABLE {TABLE_NAME} ADD CONSTRAINT'
            f' {CONSTRAINT_NAME}'
            f' UNIQUE (col1, col2) NOT DEFERRABLE;'
        )

class Migration(migrations.Migration):

    dependencies = [
        ('myapp', '<previous_mig>'),
    ]

    operations = [
        migrations.RunPython(code=_make_deferrable,  reverse_code=_unmake_deferrable)
    ]